Even though I continue to practice daily voice skills (a list is at the end of this post) to help me prepare for in-person conversations, I’m still challenged by the pronunciation of certain words. Often, I avoid the word altogether and use a simpler version. Or I simply plow ahead, slurring and bumbling my way and relying on lots of body language to convey what I want to say.
But I’m happy to report that I’ve adopted an innovative strategy that’s been helping me learn to speak clearly and with more ease. This is all part of my continuing quest to prevent my ALS-related dysarthria, or speech disorder, from robbing me of my ability to speak (Dysarthria feels like having a bad case of laryngitis and a lazy tongue that is two steps behind what my mind wants to say).
Challenges and strategies
Some of the strategies I’ve previously
incorporated include improving my posture, strengthening my diaphragm, and even
using a personal voice amplifier. All
good things to do, but breathing better and
having more volume can’t help me improve my pronunciation. For example, when I
say, “Hand me the spoon,” it sounds more like, “Han MEE da sch-POON.”
Certainly, it's not what I intend to sound like.
Pronunciation drills for ESL students are useful for me, too
Going online, I searched for
suggestions from others who share my word pronunciation dilemma and discovered
that non-native speakers have challenges similar to mine! Learning English as a
second language (ESL) also means learning to make new and difficult sounds,
plus adopting a unique rhythm within
each sentence.
Fortunately, this topic has a wealth of online resources, including YouTube videos focused on helping non-native speakers learn to converse in English. Plus, following the videos makes it fun to practice. (I like Accent's Way English with Hadar)
Exploring new sounds
As an example, for the “R” sound, as in “rah,
row, rear,” I can watch a helpful explanation of how to position my lips and
tongue to create the sound, practice some drills, and then try a few
tongue-twister phrases.
On some days, I create my own version of the TV show “Sesame Street.” I pick a letter from the alphabet and every time the letter’s sound shows up in my conversation, I pause, relax, and try to pronounce it correctly.
At one time, I’d developed the habit of trying so hard to say a particular word that I ended up exaggerating it to the point of adding extra syllables. When I said “please,” for example, it often became “PUL-LEE-SSS.” Now when I say the word, it sounds more like a simple “pleeez.”
The test
When our daughter visited us
for a week, I had the opportunity to put my ESL-enhanced speaking skills to
the test. Because she lives a distance away, we’ve had to rely on phone calls
and Skype sessions, so I always look forward to our in-person
conversations. But I still secretly worry about how I sound.
Several times during the week of her visit, she’d remark, “Mom, I can understand you so well. Your speech has really improved.”
Oh my gosh, that made me feel so good.
Are you experiencing challenges with learning to accommodate your dysarthria? If so, I invite you to try my strategies and tips. Let’s learn to live well while we live with ALS.
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My home voice program:
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Warm up: Do 10-15 minutes of humming, special mouth and jaw exercises,
diaphragmatic breathing, and body stretches to help my posture.
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Practice: I’m enrolled in a speech study sponsored by Everything ALS. My goal is to twice a month and
spend 2-minutes recording words, sentences, and a paragraph about bamboo
gardens. I also enrolled in the Speech Accessibility
Project sponsored by the University of
Illinois Urbana-Champaign.
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Engage: I challenge myself to have longer conversations with my
husband, not just the “yes, no” conversations that most couples have.
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Be open to
unique places to practice. Often when I
accompany my husband on his errands, I wait alone in our van while he runs into
the store. That creates my perfect, private space to practice counting,
humming, and even singing out loud. Don’t mind that lady singing in the van,
she’s happy and on a mission!
dagmar Munn
ALS and Wellness Blog
“Practice… Practice… Practice…”
A version of this post first
appeared as my column on the ALS News Today website
Thank you thank you thank you I follow you on ALS News but haven’t seen this post just what I needed struggling so hard with speech!
ReplyDeleteI find speaking so tiring.Any tips for this?
ReplyDeleteThank you. I struggle with speech and slurring my words and since I am still involved with the public I sure need this help!
ReplyDeleteLove these practice tips!!!
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